ApParent Privilege is written by Steve Wright and Chris Graves and is the Companion book to reThink. (which I reviewed here) The thesis of ApParent Privilege is that the privilege of discipling children in the faith falls to Christian parents. It is not the job of the church, youth minister, or school. Those entities are supplementary.
To build the case of the book the authors begin by citing multiple studies, both religious and secular that all agree. There is no more powerful influence in the life of a child than his or her family. The Bible agrees with this position as well which the authors establish thoroughly. They then follow up with their own study which said that students wish their parents would be more proactive in their lives spiritually.
After establishing the thesis, ApParent Privilege moves into the reasons why biblical parenting is more important than ever. The world is changing but not the true job of parents.
“Biblical parenting is more than keeping our kids from having sex, using drugs, or going to jail. It is about fostering an awe of God in our children. It is about showing our children their need for a Savior and introducing them to Jesus who alone can rescue their lives from sin and give life that lasts forever.”
This quote, my favorite from the book, echoes the thesis of the greatest Christian parenting book ever, Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp.
The book continues with a more how-to approach to Christian parenting. This includes a word directly to fathers, practical ideas for developing and discipling children, and ways for the church to supplement rather than supersede parents.
It would be difficult for me to give higher praise to a book than to this one. It is well-written, easy to read, simple and straightforward. The authors make their case thoroughly and offer practical advice on how to become biblical parents. My only criticism of the book is that it is entirely too expensive for such a small book. This is not a problem particular to this book, it plagues the entire publishing industry.
I strongly recommend ApParent Privilege to any parent of a school-aged child.